After a full night of drinking and partying in NYC, I head up to my favorite brunch spot with my girl. As we wait to be seated, we randomly run into my cousin, who just happens to be on a first date with some dude she met online.
Here's the deal. My cousin is a cute, cool and very social girl in her mid-20's. Like most others, she just wants a cool, normal guy to share experiences in life with. Unfortunately, this guy was not the one, and he made that pretty clear from the start.
We introduce ourselves, and the guy seems nice, but not really social. He doesn't really make an effort. He gets a phone call, and goes outside to take the call.
"This is going to be terrible." My cousin says, once her date is out of hearing distance. I laughed, said that I love her optimism, and then ask her why.
"This guy is all business. He's trying to impress me by bragging about his job, and how he has a meeting later at the Waldlorf Astoria. I don't give a shit. I just want to hang out and have some mimosa's."
We continue chatting and realize that this guy has been outside talking on the phone for about 10 minutes. Now my cousin is just pissed. She eventually goes out to check on him ... they don't reenter the restaurant.
Now, I can relate to the guy. Like many of us, he gleaned from society the false idea that women are attracted to money. He was doing what he thought would make him attractive. Instead, he killed any chances of attraction right from the start by trying to impress my cousin.
That is why I feel grateful everyday that I had the balls to put my ego aside, and learn to become a man who understands attraction and how to connect with people. It's a choice everyone has to make on their own, society will only hold you back.
Anyways, I've gotta call my cuz now and let her know that there are guys out there who know the scoop, who are attractive and can truly relate to women.
Peace.
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